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Mornington, Victoria, Australia
I have been seeing clients and helping them to bring about changes in their lives for 40yrs. Bringing personal change and growth to those who come to see me. I see clients of all ages and occupations, they often tell me how much these sessions with me have brought about change and growth in their lives. It is an honour and a privilege to be witness to the personal power that lies dormant within you.

Wednesday, July 24, 2013

Sunday, May 26, 2013


What are Guides?

Guides are the existential part of ourselves that exists in the realm outside time and space.
They are a creation of what it is you want to see in yourselves.
We are who you want and strive to be.
Therefore we are you yourselves,
completed in time and and space for you to contemplate,
and communicate with.

You are just the same as us, yet you do not believe you are,
therefore you create this seemingly external aspect of yourself
and name it some thing that seems to make sense to you right now.

We appear in the forms that most appeal to your psyche
and are the least threatening to you , the least fearful and the most acceptable.
These forms and images can change over time,
as you change and grow, so does the information and connection that you require

We are always the exact answer to all your questions,
we cannot suppose for you,
you have to suppose and compose the questions for yourself.
This allows you to contemplate and think about what it is you want,
as we do not want to become the replacement of your own thoughts and desires,
this would not be useful to you and it certainly would not be useful to us.

We are there to advise illuminate and stimulate.
We are not here to dictate, order or accumulate.

We are available all the time, as time has no meaning to us.
We are available all the time whether you believe it or not.

Many communicate with us without realising they are.

They ask "themselves" the question what should I do now
and they get the ideas and responses from us.
For you see every time you pose a question either to yourself internally,
or to others externally, we respond.
You could call us the great responders ..
"Oh yes we're the great responders."
(This is the song Oh yes we're the great pretender,
my guides often use songs and humour)

That is our role, to respond to the requests of the responsive, which is you.

We respond to your thoughts and actions
and are always ready to hear you and be there for you.
 Please realise this and then the connection is opened,
 it is never really closed,
but it is great to have the response from you to the responder which is us.

This is simplified for you to understand more clearly,
who you are, and who we are in relationship with you.

Tuesday, April 16, 2013

Monthly Motivators

 
 

Being in the moment has such a great effect,
there is no tomorrow and no yesterday,
so all memories - good and bad just fade away.

Then there is opportunity
 to make new memories,
that you are in control of
and would like to be in your memory bank.

What are you choosing to deposit
 in your account right now,
will it bring you a debit or a credit.
 
Make each moment that you live
 an interesting one.

Monday, March 11, 2013

Monday Motivators




The most important thoughts you could ever have
are the ones about yourself.

Your self esteem influences who you are
and how you see the world.

We all paint our own sky,
some paint it blue
and others paint it black.

This all depends on how you see yourself,
not on how you see the world.

Your world relies on your view of yourself being a positive view.
So take some time this week
to really delve into your own opinion of yourself.

See if you are living up to other people's views of who you are,
or your own view of who you are.

Make a list of the ideal person you would like to be,
and take steps to making this happen.

For if you change who you are,
then your world changes too.

To have the life you want,
you need to create it yourself,
not just go along with what you think is handed to you.

Life is handed to you for you to mould
and make it the way you want it.

What life will you choose today,
one that you live and choose for yourself,
or one that you live thinking you have no control.

Take the reins into your own hands and decide to live life to the fullest.
It will then be satisfying and productive not only for you,
but for those around you too.

That old saying,
be the change you want to see in the world,
is so true.
Do not read it agree and then do nothing about it,
read it and make it your mantra,

I am the change I want to see in the world.

Monday, February 25, 2013

Monday Motivators



Have you ever put yourself before another
 and felt the guilt from doing so?

Have you ever not spoken your truth to another
 and felt the guilt for doing so?

Have you never felt the way you want to in a relationship
 and felt the guilt for doing so?

This guilt is the way you process life,
 it is the way you feel about yourself
 and how you measure the value you have about yourself.

For if you valued yourself,
you would not feel guilt about being true to yourself.

To show yourself your true worth,
 vow to be truthful,
 put yourself first,
and feel the true feelings in your relationships,
 just for one day.

Then at the end of the day
 assess how you feel and how your day went for you.

I guarantee it will be a more satisfying
 and powerful day for you,
for self worth is all you need
 to bring about change and growth.
 
 

Sunday, February 17, 2013

Monday motivators




This is the day of being present in your life.
The gift in being present,
is the gift of knowing what it is you want,
and being in the moment
 to see that you already have it surrounding you.

You have all that you need right now,
 be present and know this.
You do not need anything else right now,
 only that which you have already.
 
Does this make sense?
 
If not ask yourself what does this mean.

You thought you wanted more money,
better relationships, and to feel better.

Yet I am saying you have all these things and more,
you just do not believe that you have,
seeing is believing they say,
yet believing is seeing really.

See the difference?

Believe in something
 and you have it instantly on the way to you.
 
Do not believe it is there
 and this is true for you too.

So are you going to gift yourself today
with the power of being present in your life.

Being present means living it to the full
and not wasting time wishing you had more,
and in so doing
 ignoring that which you already have.

Enjoy what you have
and then you invite more of the same into your life.

As simple and as complicated as that.
 
Ummm?
 

Monday, February 4, 2013

Pride in who you are

Be proud of who you are.

What will you do with your freedom?

For you have the freedom to choose anything you desire-

You just have to desire it.

What will you choose?

Peace?

Happiness?

Forgiveness?

Power?

Money?

A new house?

Fulfilment?

What would fulfil you?

What would make you complete and ready for the next step?

Emotional fulfilment, pride in who I am,

what I do, how I relate,

and how I feel – regardless of whether the feeling is

negative or positive.

Just accept it all for what it is

An expression of who you are.

And it is all good

And you should be proud of yourself.



Here is an affirmation that you may find useful.

I am proud of the fact that I am growing

Each day towards the real me.

The me I desire to be-

Loving, kind and gentle,

Powerful and accepting,

Tolerant and forgiving.

This is emotional fulfilment for me

At this moment.

Pride in who I am and what I do.

For this is me connecting with who I really am.



Sunday, January 13, 2013

Monday Motivators.

When you just think
there is nothing happening in your life,
a door opens.

When you just think
 I can no longer go on,
a path rises up before you.

When you just think
there has to be more to life than just this,
then the Universe showers you with gifts.

When you just think all is lost,
you suddenly find something.

You are always on track,
with the right door before you,
you will find hope
 and love
 and all that you desire,
just desire it.
When you desire something,
it is much quicker to eventuate in your life,

for what you focus on grows.
 

Thursday, January 10, 2013

The year ahead

The card for 2013
The death card
This may seem dark and foreboding, but this is not so.
This is a very positive card for this year.

Do you have old fears,
 beliefs,
relationships or circumstances
 in your life that no longer serve you well,
or that you no longer need?
 
This is the time to let them go,
this is the death,
 the death of old negative emotions
 and ways of being.
 
The hooded figure on the card
represents the cloak of old habits
 you have been wearing for so long.
 
These old habits can be shed as easily as taking off a cloak.
 
Just because you have been running a behaviour for a long time does not mean that you need along time to get rid of it.
 
You put in that behaviour in a milli second,
 therefor you can remove it in a milli second too.
 
You just need to decide to do this,
 then consciously watch out for that behaviour raising
 it's little head,
and take control,
 ease yourself out of it.
 
This year is a time of change and letting go,
 it is also therefor a time for exciting new possibilities
 to be there for you.
 
Be aware of these opportunities as they arise
 and be brave enough to take them.
 
Everything new has a certain risk to it,
 as you have nothing to compare it with,
 but taking that risk is worth it,
 for the more you do,
the easier it gets,
 and the fears subside.
 
Be brave step forward with certainty,
 and with love in your heart and nothing can go wrong.
 
Enjoy this year of change and growth.