Monday Motivators

Have you ever put yourself before another

 and felt the guilt from doing so?

Have you ever not spoken your truth to another

 and felt the guilt for doing so?

Have you never felt the way you want to in a relationship

 and felt the guilt for doing so?

This guilt is the way you process life,

 it is the way you feel about yourself

 and how you measure the value you have about yourself.

For if you valued yourself,

you would not feel guilt about being true to yourself.

To show yourself your true worth,

 vow to be truthful,

 put yourself first,

and feel the true feelings in your relationships,

 just for one day.

Then at the end of the day

 assess how you feel and how your day went for you.

I guarantee it will be a more satisfying

 and powerful day for you,

for self worth is all you need

 to bring about change and growth.

 

 

Monday motivators

This is the day of being present in your life.

The gift in being present,

is the gift of knowing what it is you want,

and being in the moment

 to see that you already have it surrounding you.

You have all that you need right now,

 be present and know this.

You do not need anything else right now,

 only that which you have already.

 

Does this make sense?

 

If not ask yourself what does this mean.

You thought you wanted more money,

better relationships, and to feel better.

Yet I am saying you have all these things and more,

you just do not believe that you have,

seeing is believing they say,

yet believing is seeing really.

See the difference?

Believe in something

 and you have it instantly on the way to you.

 

Do not believe it is there

 and this is true for you too.

So are you going to gift yourself today

with the power of being present in your life.

Being present means living it to the full

and not wasting time wishing you had more,

and in so doing

 ignoring that which you already have.

Enjoy what you have

and then you invite more of the same into your life.

As simple and as complicated as that.

 

Ummm?

 

Pride in who you are

Be proud of who you are.

What will you do with your freedom?

For you have the freedom to choose anything you desire-

You just have to desire it.

What will you choose?

Peace?

Happiness?

Forgiveness?

Power?

Money?

A new house?

Fulfilment?

What would fulfil you?

What would make you complete and ready for the next step?

Emotional fulfilment, pride in who I am,

what I do, how I relate,

and how I feel – regardless of whether the feeling is

negative or positive.

Just accept it all for what it is

An expression of who you are.

And it is all good

And you should be proud of yourself.

Here is an affirmation that you may find useful.

I am proud of the fact that I am growing

Each day towards the real me.

The me I desire to be-

Loving, kind and gentle,

Powerful and accepting,

Tolerant and forgiving.

This is emotional fulfilment for me

At this moment.

Pride in who I am and what I do.

For this is me connecting with who I really am.

Monday Motivators.

When you just think

there is nothing happening in your life,
a door opens.

When you just think

 I can no longer go on,
a path rises up before you.

When you just think

there has to be more to life than just this,
then the Universe showers you with gifts.

When you just think all is lost,
you suddenly find something.

You are always on track,
with the right door before you,
you will find hope

 and love

 and all that you desire,
just desire it.

When you desire something,
it is much quicker to eventuate in your life,

for what you focus on grows.

 

The year ahead

The card for 2013

The death card

This may seem dark and foreboding, but this is not so.

This is a very positive card for this year.

Do you have old fears,

 beliefs,

relationships or circumstances

 in your life that no longer serve you well,

or that you no longer need?

 

This is the time to let them go,

this is the death,

 the death of old negative emotions

 and ways of being.

 

The hooded figure on the card

represents the cloak of old habits

 you have been wearing for so long.

 

These old habits can be shed as easily as taking off a cloak.

 

Just because you have been running a behaviour for a long time does not mean that you need along time to get rid of it.

 

You put in that behaviour in a milli second,

 therefor you can remove it in a milli second too.

 

You just need to decide to do this,

 then consciously watch out for that behaviour raising

 it's little head,

and take control,

 ease yourself out of it.

 

This year is a time of change and letting go,

 it is also therefor a time for exciting new possibilities

 to be there for you.

 

Be aware of these opportunities as they arise

 and be brave enough to take them.

 

Everything new has a certain risk to it,

 as you have nothing to compare it with,

 but taking that risk is worth it,

 for the more you do,

the easier it gets,

 and the fears subside.

 

Be brave step forward with certainty,

 and with love in your heart and nothing can go wrong.

 

Enjoy this year of change and growth.

Christmas Time

Christmas time is apon us once again. A time for giving and receiving. Love and joy to all. Yet some do not have the love and joy, and have nothing to give or recieve. This year why not make Christmas - some thing special for some one you know.   Instead of giving to an anonimous charity. Look around your neighbourhood, is there some one you could give to, they do not need to know, you can place it in their letter box. A small offering from some one who cares. Be brave and then feel the feeling it gives you, for you are doing this for you,not for them. The feeling of satisfaction, this simple act can bring is immence, I know I do this all the time, so know how it feels. Try it out for yourself, go on I dare you. Well here is my gift to you. You are the most special person in the world.   The Universe created you, so how could you be other wise? The energy that runs through you is the one that creates all life. You are part of this energy,  so could you not be perfect, just the way you are. Now go out and buy yourself a special gift, just for you. I have bought myself the CD with the song Firework on it, I love it. I am wrapping it for me and putting it under my tree to remind myself how special I am to me.

Creativity

A creative person has to be comfortable with insecurity. Whether you are creating a relationship, a family,  a new job, a new way of living  or even a work of art, you need to be comfortable with insecurity. In all these cases you never know what will happen. Insecurity leads to movement towards security, the constant search for that stability we crave drives us through the present moment insecurity towards creativeness. This then brings the security we seek. Then we have a taste for the creativeness, which leads to more insecurity, which needs to be satisfied -so the cycle goes on. Each turn of the wheel brings fortune  and more creativeness. Being reckless is not creativeness, it is not the same process, there is no drive towards  satisfaction and completion. Creativeness is satisfaction and completion,  even if things are only completed in your thinking and not manifested by you,  they are still your creation, your cycle will be complete and will recreate another cycle of insecurity. The greatest insight about creativity  is the fact that it often comes from boredom of the mundane. So exitement is the precurser of the creativity,  the insecurity is often hidden by the excitement, which we call inspiration. Dig deep to discover  that those who are not creative, fear the insecurity it brings, so they think it is easier to be stable  and feel secure in their non-creative state. Yet they are still creating that state,therefor that which seems to be stable is in fact not so !! They then feel even more insecure in their lives,and become stuck. Unstick yourself,  take some risks to get what it is you want,  and you will become inspired once more.